Shifting Friendships

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 I had just turned 26 when we first decided 

to add a babe to the family. At that 

time we were the first people in our 

friends group to be married

 and nobody was even close to wanting

 children. Fast forward 4 years,

 everyone is married and we

 are the basically the last to have

 kids. In fact, some people have multiple 

children. Multiple. Needless to say, 

relationships begin to change once babes 

come into the mix. Coffee dates

 are harder to manage, a lunch date is 

nearly impossible. and when they are 

worked out, I often feel totally out of my 

league and seem to have very 

little to relate to. What was once shop talk,

 makeup talk, fashion finds and 

relationship woes have turned into 

breastfeeding and sick babe drama. 

I want to support my friends but I also want to 

feel like I'm contributing. 

Instead I'm really fucking bored.